The Elder Brother's Prayer

In studying the Prodigal Son last week I was very struck by Keller's question Do I pray like an older brother?

The elder brothers prayer does not delve into the intimate relationship with God they enjoy by grace with a God who loves them. Rather the prayer of an elder brother is driven by a desire to control their environment and life.

Fascinatingly at the same time I was continuing to pray a Psalm a day, and for last week each one revelled in the goodness of God, in the privilege of being one of God's people because of his steadfast love. The Psalmist does not pray like an older brother, but provides a model of relational prayer.

Do I pray like an older brother?